For all guys that have been struggling over the last 11 months to get it in with whomever you are trying to get it in with, you are in luck! See, the next 30 days presents an awkward moment in the female/male social dynamic. It’s Chirstmas time, and no one wants to be alone, so everyone will be looking for those possibilities to end the year on a good note.
So, guys if you got it like that, it’s going to be like shooting fish in a barrel. There are a number of women out there whom are looking to have somebody on their arm or be on someone’s arm for a number of different occasions over the next 30 to 35 days, so you can finish out the year strong and move into 2012 like a straight up BOSS.
If you don’t have it like that, that’s cool too. This time of year can give you that environmental boost that you may need. You know like when the crocodile is waiting near the edge of the water and snatches up an unsuspecting wildebeest like it was nothing, this was not luck, what this creature did was utilize the local landscape to catch his prey off guard.
That’s what you have to do with women, catch them off guard. Cause for the most part, they already have you pegged and the answer is already No. So I am going to give the game away in small bits so can easily digest it. I’m not going to hit you with 10 step, there are plenty of those out there.
Let me start off by saying this,
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FUCK SWAG
When I think of swag, I think of people posturing trying to give off the impression that they are something they are not. Whether your posturing is happening through clothes, fake confidence, or whatever it may get you off the launch pad, but it is not going to get you to the moon.
Seriously, most women have too much game for the swag to be a deal closer, and spending too much time on this aspect is an exercise in futility.
What we are going to focus on this week, is determining your lane and staying in it. What is your lane? I am glad you asked! Your “Lane” as we call it, is your area of expertise plus location that is the most comfortable for you to be successful at capturing women, the key word is capture because you can meet women anywhere, but you don’t want to meet them, you want to WIN!!!. The winning part comes into play when what you know is in tune with what they want to hear. This is where those listening skills come into play. If they happen to be into something that you have no idea what it is about, then find some sort of shared experience, anything that can keep the conversation moving, because at some point the conversation is going to come back to, “What do you think about that?”
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Don’t stand there looking like BoBo the fool when you knew ahead of time, that she was intoand instead of reading about it , watching a documentary, or even wiki’in that MOFO, you decided to wing it…
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| any one that had that sword, did what ever they wanted too, in STYLE |
The next option is to bring them into your world. If you are passionate about something, that they could find interesting, then there is your Green Destiny right there. If you are not passionate about anything and you are over the age of 23 my advice is to stop reading this blog right now.
It won’t help you.
People like learning new things or more importantly, people like learning new ways to think about things that they think they already know, so if you got the inside scoop on something, present it in an engaging manner that does not come off as condescending or to technical. Too much of any of those things will equal a lose.
Next week we are going to talk about whatever I f'n want too!
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